Ira L. Herman
On the official roster: U.S. District Court, Eastern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
49 mediators in Delaware listed from official court and government rosters, for divorce and family mediation, civil cases and more. Every profile links to its source.

In Delaware Superior Court civil cases, the scheduling order sets a deadline for compulsory alternative dispute resolution [1]. The parties choose the format, such as arbitration, mediation or neutral case assessment, and mediation is the default if they cannot agree [1]. Some civil actions also go through mandatory non-binding arbitration under Rule 16.1 [2].
In Family Court, support cases and custody, visitation and guardianship cases go to a mediation conference with a Court staff mediator, who tries to settle or narrow the issues before a hearing [3]. Parties bring financial or custody disclosure reports to that conference [3].
If they cannot agree on an ADR practitioner, they jointly ask the Court to appoint one within 30 days, and the parties pay the practitioner's fees [1].
Mediation communications and materials are confidential [1].
Summarized from the official sources cited in brackets. Last reviewed 2026-10-07. Court programs change; confirm with your court. This is general information, not legal advice.
On the official roster: U.S. District Court, Eastern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, D. Del. · verified 2026-10-07
On the official roster: U.S. Bankruptcy Court, Southern District of New York · verified 2026-10-07
These mediators say they work with Delaware clients online. They are on other states’ official rosters (shown on each listing), not Delaware’s. Where they serve is their own statement. Sorted: placements first (paid ones are labeled), then most complete profile.
Court-ordered case? Courts may require a mediator from their own approved list for court-ordered cases. Check your court’s rules, or see how mediation works in Delaware.
Court-connected mediation in Delaware: Delaware Superior Court's ADR rule lets parties agree on their own ADR practitioner, with the Court appointing one only if they cannot agree; Family Court mediation is done by court staff. No statewide mediator list was found.
Private mediation in Delaware: No state license for private mediators was found in the sources reviewed. Delaware's Rule 5.5(c)(3) allows out-of-state lawyers temporary mediation-related work; no rule on online mediators was found.
Sources: Superior Court Civil Rules (Rule 16) (PDF) · Family Court Civil Rules (Rules 16, 16.1) (PDF) · Delaware Lawyers' Rules of Professional Conduct (PDF) · Supreme Court of Delaware Order, In re Advisory Committee to Examine Rule 5.5 (Nov. 4, 2024) (PDF) · partly verified
Works online with Delaware clients
Court-certified in: Idaho (verified) · Idaho Supreme Court, 2026-10-07
Serves clients: in person in Idaho · online nationwide (her statement)
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New Castle County has the most mediators listed in Delaware (27). Counts use each mediator's home county on the roster.
Source: Counted from official court and government rosters (source and verified date on every profile); latest roster check 2026-10-07.
| County | Mediators |
|---|---|
| New Castle County | 27 |
The most common listing is U.S. Bankruptcy Court D. Del. - Register of Mediators and Arbitrators (Del. Bankr. L.R. 9019-5) (49 mediators). Many mediators hold more than one certification, so the bars add up to more than the 49 people listed.
Certification and panel names are as the roster states them.
Source: Counted from official court and government rosters (source and verified date on every profile); latest roster check 2026-10-07.
| Category | Mediators |
|---|---|
| U.S. Bankruptcy Court D. Del. - Register of Mediators and Arbitrators (Del. Bankr. L.R. 9019-5) | 49 |
| U.S. Bankruptcy Court S.D.N.Y. Register of Mediators | 11 |
| Pro Bono Panel | 2 |
| E.D.N.C. Bankruptcy Court mediator list (LBR) | 1 |
| NCDRC Certified Mediator | 1 |
| U.S. Bankruptcy Court M.D. Pa. Certified Mediator | 1 |
| U.S. Bankruptcy Court W.D. Pa. Court Mediator | 1 |
| Other (1 more certifications or panels) | 1 |
12 of 49 mediators listed in Delaware (24%) have a roster background that lists them as an attorney. Mediators act as neutrals and don't represent either side.
Not every roster records a mediator's background, so “not stated” includes attorneys whose roster doesn't say.
Source: Counted from official court and government rosters (source and verified date on every profile); latest roster check 2026-10-07.
| Category | Mediators |
|---|---|
| Roster background lists them as an attorney | 12 |
| Other background or not stated | 37 |
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In Delaware Superior Court civil cases, the scheduling order sets a deadline for compulsory alternative dispute resolution [1]. The parties choose the format, such as arbitration, mediation or neutral case assessment, and mediation is the default if they cannot agree [1]. Some civil actions also go through mandatory non-binding arbitration under Rule 16.1 [2].
Sources: Superior Court Civil Rule 16 (Rules of Civil Procedure, Superior Court of Delaware) · Alternative Dispute Resolution – Superior Court of Delaware
In Family Court, support cases and custody, visitation and guardianship cases go to a mediation conference with a Court staff mediator, who tries to settle or narrow the issues before a hearing [3]. Parties bring financial or custody disclosure reports to that conference [3].
Source: Family Court Civil Rules 16 and 16.1 (Family Court of Delaware)
If they cannot agree on an ADR practitioner, they jointly ask the Court to appoint one within 30 days, and the parties pay the practitioner's fees [1].
Source: Superior Court Civil Rule 16 (Rules of Civil Procedure, Superior Court of Delaware)
Mediation communications and materials are confidential [1].
Source: Superior Court Civil Rule 16 (Rules of Civil Procedure, Superior Court of Delaware)
Delaware Superior Court's ADR rule lets parties agree on their own ADR practitioner, with the Court appointing one only if they cannot agree; Family Court mediation is done by court staff. No statewide mediator list was found.
Sources: Superior Court Civil Rules (Rule 16) (PDF) · Family Court Civil Rules (Rules 16, 16.1) (PDF) · Delaware Lawyers' Rules of Professional Conduct (PDF) · Supreme Court of Delaware Order, In re Advisory Committee to Examine Rule 5.5 (Nov. 4, 2024) (PDF) · partly verified
No state license for private mediators was found in the sources reviewed. Delaware's Rule 5.5(c)(3) allows out-of-state lawyers temporary mediation-related work; no rule on online mediators was found.
Sources: Superior Court Civil Rules (Rule 16) (PDF) · Family Court Civil Rules (Rules 16, 16.1) (PDF) · Delaware Lawyers' Rules of Professional Conduct (PDF) · Supreme Court of Delaware Order, In re Advisory Committee to Examine Rule 5.5 (Nov. 4, 2024) (PDF) · partly verified
Answers come only from the official sources cited. General information, not legal advice.