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Divorce mediation helps spouses settle parenting, support and property issues with a neutral mediator instead of a judge. Compare 7,000+ family mediators listed on official court rosters, each with its source and the date we checked it.

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Divorce mediation in Arizona12 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Arkansas107 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in California115 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Colorado51 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Florida2,221 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Hawaii51 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Idaho96 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Illinois386 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Indiana705 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Iowa321 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Kansas139 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Maryland326 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Michigan95 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Minnesota475 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Missouri66 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Montana16 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in New Jersey718 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in North Carolina4 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in North Dakota50 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Ohio92 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Oklahoma12 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Oregon20 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Pennsylvania86 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in South Carolina345 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in South Dakota52 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Tennessee631 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Texas270 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Vermont8 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Virginia270 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Washington56 family mediatorsDivorce mediation in Wisconsin8 family mediators

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What is divorce mediation?

Divorce mediation is a process in which a neutral mediator helps spouses work out the terms of their divorce, such as parenting time, child support, property and debts. The mediator doesn't decide anything. If you reach an agreement, its terms are written down for you to sign and, in a court case, to file with the court.

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How much does divorce mediation cost?

It depends on who you hire and where. Private mediators set their own rates, by the hour, per session or as a flat fee, and some court programs set fees by law. We don't publish averages because no official source tracks private rates. Our cost guide explains what to ask and lists official court fees where they exist.

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Can mediation settle child custody?

Yes. Parents often use mediation to work out a parenting plan: where the children live, the schedule, holidays and how decisions get made. Some courts require parents to try mediation before a custody hearing, with exceptions for domestic violence. A judge usually reviews the final plan before it becomes an order.

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Do I need a lawyer for divorce mediation?

You can usually mediate without a lawyer, but the mediator can't give either of you legal advice. You can hire your own lawyer to advise you before, during or after mediation, or to review the agreement before you sign. Some mediators are lawyers themselves; they still act as neutrals and don't represent either spouse.

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Mediation may not be safe or fair when there has been domestic violence, threats or coercion, or when one spouse can't speak freely or is hiding assets. Many courts excuse or change mediation in those situations. Tell the court or the mediator about safety concerns before any session, and ask about separate sessions.

When divorce mediation is not recommended

How do I prepare for divorce mediation?

Gather your financial papers, such as pay stubs, tax returns, account statements and a list of debts, and write down your priorities, especially for the children. Read any court order about mediation, learn the mediator's fees and confidentiality rules, and bring your questions. A checklist helps you keep track of each step.

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