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Divorce mediation in Clayton, MO

23 mediators listed in Clayton (St. Louis County) on official Missouri rosters, including 17 family mediators for divorce mediation in Clayton.

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How does mediation work in St. Louis County?

St. Louis County forms Missouri's 21st Judicial Circuit [1], whose courts are at 105 South Central Avenue in Clayton [2]. When judges refer divorce, separation, paternity, family access or adult abuse matters, the Family Court's Domestic Relations Services mediators help parents work out parenting plans [3]. The Family Court also keeps a Court Approved Mediator List of private mediators who mediate property, financial, custody and parenting issues; for free or reduced-fee mediation it refers parties to the Family Court Administrator at (314) 615-2970 [4]. Most mediators below come from that list; the rest are on the U.S. District Court for the Eastern District of Missouri's list of neutrals [4][5].

  1. Revised Statutes of Missouri, Chapter 478 (judicial circuits)
  2. St. Louis County Courts – 21st Judicial Circuit (home)
  3. St. Louis County Courts – Domestic Relations Services
  4. Family Court of St. Louis County – Court Approved Mediator List
  5. U.S. District Court, E.D. Mo. – Neutrals

Fact-checked 2026-10-07. Court programs change; confirm with the clerk.

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Mediators who work online with Missouri clients

These mediators say they work with Missouri clients online. They are on other states’ official rosters (shown on each listing), not Missouri’s. Where they serve is their own statement. Sorted: placements first (paid ones are labeled), then most complete profile.

Court-ordered case? Courts may require a mediator from their own approved list for court-ordered cases. Check your court’s rules, or see how mediation works in Missouri.

Court-connected mediation in Missouri: Missouri has no statewide mediator roster; each circuit keeps its own list. Some circuits appoint from their list but let parties agree on a different mediator, and St. Louis County family court says parties may pick any qualified mediator.

Private mediation in Missouri: No state license for private mediators was found in the sources reviewed. Supreme Court rules set training minimums for court-connected and custody mediators. No rule on out-of-state or online mediators was found.

Sources: Greene County Family Court - Mediator Application (quotes Sup. Ct. Rules 17.04 and 88.05) (PDF) · 22nd Judicial Circuit (City of St. Louis) Local Court Rules eff. 5-27-25, Rule 38 (PDF) · Family Court of St. Louis County - Court Approved Mediator List · RSMo § 452.372 - Missouri Revisor of Statutes · partly verified

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